Ok…well life isn’t fair, but we all know that.  The fact is, how can two people that are so right for one another be completely oblivious to that fact.  Actually, it’s more the guy that is oblivious.  Let me explain because it’s a fact that neither of them are ever going to read this and find out that I said it.  I have two friends, a guy and a girl.  The girl is my best friend EVER we share everything and we are the closest that any two people could be.  Well, that is with the exception of my other friend, the guy.  She and he have been friends since she was 3 and he was 2.  She tells him even MORE than she tells me, and he tells her the same.  You can see they are truly in love with one another.  It is a great love that I wish I could have, but the guy doesn’t see it.  The girl…now that’s a different story entirely.  She’s been in love with him, probably, since she was three.  That seems like an exaggeration…. which it probably is…but that is the point I’m trying to make.  She’s loved him for a long time.   From the way he acts you can tell that he loves her too but somehow he is able to deny it and keep this fact from himself.  All of his actions point directly to his love for her.  The way they can talk and talk on the phone for hours and hours or on the internet…EVERYDAY…and never run out of things to talk about.  The way they both can read one another like a book.  How they know one another like the backs of their hands.  How in all actuality they are actually boyfriend and girlfriend now but they haven’t actually put that official name on it.  She loves him with all her heart and soul.  For years she has gone in and out of relationships hoping that, with each one, he will take notice and get jealous and tell her that she is HIS…not someone else’s.  Which, in all actuality he does do that…but he just leaves out the part of telling her he wants her for himself…and he doesn’t want anyone else to have her.  When she dates other people he comes to me and complains about that person saying that they are stupid, dumb, completely wrong for her…when just the day before they got together he was chummy with the other guy.  I asked him one time who wouldn’t be “completely wrong for her” and he said, “someone that will take care of her, love her, keep her, never let her go, never hurt her, never say he loves her before he truly means it, loves her too much yet not enough at the same time, not only wants her but NEEDS her, hugs her when she is in need, holds her hand, cuddles her and is content in that and doesn’t want her for sex, kisses her so gently and with such emotion that there is no doubt how much he is in love with her, someone that finds the very smell of her, JUST her…no special scents…intoxicating and imbibing to his senses, who loves her with every fiber of his being and would never, ever, ever leave her alone for ANY reason for any amount of time because he feels as though he might die if he is away from her.”  That is seriously what he said.  Now you tell me he isn’t in love with her.  You tell me that he doesn’t want her, that he doesn’t need her, that he isn’t the man that is “completely right for her.”  I hope one day they find one another and are able to share the love they have for one another because I think it would be one of the most powerful loves in the world.